We've got our smart phones but we're a very dumb people. It's time for my life to take a different turn. I'm not happy where it is today. I find that evaluations of my life on a regular basis is essential. To be sure I am on the right track. The track I actually want to be on inst
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Where did it go? My ability to be happy more often than not. My ability to not be irritated right from the get-go in the morning. And my inability to allow what used to fuel my life to propel me into old age. I always saw myself as the guy who would grow old beautifully, happily, gracefully and with
Bless her heart. Grandma is more than 90 years old. She lived alone until just the last year or two. By herself in a home where she'd lived for many years. She drove an old car.....for years, the same old car. And she'd come to the Oakland Hilton Airport hotel to pick up her granddaughter Nicol
"I hate no one." Those stinging words are included in one of my latest Facebook messages from a nice guy that I traveled with far back in 1982. We traveled the entirety of the United States from Los Angeles to New York and back. We ventured to England, The Netherlands, Belgium and what was then West German
Twenty years tomorrow. I know I'm getting old
Regret. Ever had it? Quite honestly, I haven'
It is the holiday, you know. Memorial Day. The unofficial start to summertime. But it's raining here today -- 100% chance of it. I've pulled the BBQ grill in underneath the roofline to dry out before we grill corn on the cob and veggie burgers later on. But the rain is the least of my worries t
Holy smokes people. It's been busy busy busy. You'll recall the debacle of getting bids for painting and what an ordeal that was. We wanted to lighten up our entire condominium and have it repainted. We've b
Good morning my lads and lasses. You'll recall last week's mess with regard to receiving estimates for the painting of our condominium -- and Michael Knight and Performance Plus Painting of Gresham, Oregon's failure to
It has happened before. And it's happened again. Yes sir, in the year 2013. Over the years, we've had a variety of unknown people come into our house. For bids and estimates, to look at projects, whatever the need is. And if you're gay, you'll know precisely what I'm talking about when I say th
Stewardess. Air Hostess. Flight Attendant.
I've been thinking crazy thoughts lately. I
CHICAGO O'HARE AIRPORT HOTEL -- The workout room here is quite nice. Pool, hot tub, weights, yoga mats with lots of floor space for poses, machines, treadmills, and water! I'm working away quietly, no one else around, doing my best to embrace the sweat when Little Missy arrives on the treadmill right next
It was the 31st of January 2000 and I was w
Am I just getting old? Or are things changing around us? Have Facebook and Twitter and Tumblr and Pinterest and Scruff and Grindr and Growlr and Loopt all changed the way we do business? I feel like they are making our lives shallow. I feel like they have cheapened us. And like we want nothing
I have taken a vow of silence. For this year. To have less discussion about my health ills. The last few months of 2012 were crap. Utter crap. Things went to hell in a pretty homemade handbasket in mid-October w
This will come as no surprise but there are days when I think I've seen and heard it all. But I know that I haven't....quite yet. And today brought yet another humorous round of frivolity in the sky. Big group of nice looking men traveling home together from a conference. Old, younger, all types, nic
Did you know that? I'm not compassionate. Occasionally I am, given the right set of circumstances and people. I'm not overly touchy-feely. Nor wishy-washy. I don't put up with excuses or delays or blah blah blah. I call things as I see them, verbally many times. And on my face and i
It is clear that middle age is upon me. I turned 50 earlier this year and, I must say, it's all gone to hell in the last 30 days. I was what I thought a vibrant sort of guy. The gym, yoga, boot camp class, treadmill, weight lifting, worked a full schedule, got up early, took fish oil/B complex/multi
Take a good close look above. That's what not one, but both, of my car
Isn't peace always being tested? Mine is.
In case you hadn't heard, there continues to be a big old fight among our nation's lawmakers and citizens regarding whether the gays and lesbians of the nation should have the same marriage rights as everyone else or not. Yes sir, I'm surprised too. I looked at the calendar. And it says 2012. And it
Namaste? Like hell. I've been a yoga guy for a few years now. And I've just recently twisted the arm of my partner to join me. Believe me, world peace would have been easier to accomplish. But he's a good sport. Well, truth be told, I just wore him down over time and he gave in.
As is the usual rhetoric about this time of year and others like it, I find myself thinking "I can't believe that it is the end of summer already." Why is it that time appears to travel more quickly as adults than as children? It has been a very busy summer. Far more coordinating of schedules than I care f
Apparently, this is my semi-annual post for the Spirit of Saint Lewis. I'm not dead. Clearly, my goal to spend less time on the internet has been achieved. Lord. Things have been fine, all going well. We've just returned from our fourth annual trip to Provincetown, Massachusetts.&n
This will be my 15th summer at the beach.
You never know about tomorrow. In fact, you don't even know about today. Tragedy strikes whenever it wants to. This could happen to you. Stand up and fight. Be heard.